What people should know about relationships, especially new relationships. Relationships are difficult to form, it can be scare and intimidating at first. You meet different people and they came from different places, if they have different jobs and occupations, but at least one things in common is that in the deep inside, down to their heart people are almost the same. Relationships can be hard to begin and built, mostly because most people were hurt more than others, some were mistreated, some don't know any better, but they want all the same thing, a great fulfilling meaningful relationship.
People are afraid at first only because they don't want to feel pain again, they are afraid to let their guard down and invite others in. It's difficult to form new relationships, most people have past hurts and experiences can make anyone to avoid others, or reject those who remind them of the pain they experienced before. People just want to be happy and have their needs met. No one want to be upset or be unhappy. Everybody wants happiness and have their needs met. Everyone has different needs, some have more needs than others. A person with more needs will get easier time to get attracted to others than a person with less needs. Just because you have more needs and seem to be more needy it doesn't mean you are a bad person, it mostly means that you have new lessons to learn and figure out something for yourself.
Different people have different social levels. Their communication styles and social levels come from different past, different experiences and different needs. Everyone has different past and everyone has unique experience than others. We are all different in our own ways and it's ok to be different. Just because you are different, you aren't a bad person. People deep down are good or at least want to be good or want to be better than they were before. Looking into hearts of everyone is really hard. Entering new relationships, different people have different needs for intimacy, they might feel uncomfortable if you get too close to them, many of them will feel even unsafe and it could make them push you away, just for self protection. So, take your time, don't get too close too fast to anyone, know for sure you like someone before you do anything and be prepared to get rejected or hurt by someone you like the most. It can difficult and scary but can be rewarding at the end .
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