No debates please! The secret of a happy relationship is to keep away from debates. Don't argue over subjects that have proven differences of opinion among you and your partner Avoid unnecessary arguments.
It is good to argue provided you take the positive aspect of it. Learn to except you partners point of view. Do not stick to your point for the sake of ego. If you are wrong then except it. If you are not able to handle the conversation stop it right there. There is no point going on arguing over a subject you are not going to agree upon.
Respect the opinion of your partner. All of us have different views about a number of things. We can be adamant on our point of view but at the same time we should respect the other person's views. It may be helpful to calmly discuss the differences each one of you have. You never know the reason that is making him/her put forward those views. All of us think from different angles and that is one reason to respect the different view of the partner. You have to learn to respect the difference in opinion and choice of your partners.
If you strongly are against the views of your partner remember never to ridicule him/her.If possible stop the debate then and there. Avoid talking on subjects you know you are never going to agree upon say upon topics like religion, politics etc. Talk about things you enjoy and have in common.
Love each other completely, unconditionally! Love each for the difference in you. So never debate, either accept his opinion or leave the topic.
Two is better than one. If two ideas come together it could lead to third new idea which is better than the previous two. So why have debates? Rather listen to each other with care and thoughtfulness instead of debating unnecessarily.
If you want your partner to be happy, never converse on topics that are a cause of tension between the two of you. Always talk about less stressful things.
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