Throughout history, tarot was first used for playing games. Until the 18th and 19th centuries, the tarot card was used for tarot divination. With these purposes, the tarot card reading became increasingly popular.
A Tarot reading revolves around the belief that the cards can be used to gain insight into the past, current, and possible future situations of the querent the subject.
With the advent of the internet and all its innovations reaching tarot reading, tarot divination thru online tarot reading became more and more popular. Now, more and more people are requesting tarot card readings that involve all types of relationship issues. So how does a tarot card help relationships?Tarot Card Reading and Relationships
Relationships that involve family, friends, work/business, and love and romance have constantly dominated the tarot reading requests. That's why it is not a surprise that when talking about all types of relationships, issues of ego and self esteem, as well expectations on everyone's part and deep emotions, are always involved during a tarot reading.
In tarot reading, one must remember that the Seeker particularly how the Seeker sees himself in relation to the issues involved and on what actions he can take to bring about a resolution for himself is the focus. Both the Seeker and the tarot card reader must recognize that our primary relationship is a dual relationship - with Spirit and with ourselves.
Once at the end of a reading, it is hoped that the Seeker will be at peace with himself. He must feel empowered and believe that he has options. He should also feel that he has a sense of control over his life.
Here are some themes of transformation that can be recognized and dealt with through the Tarot:
The Self-Discovery of One's Way. This involves the acceptance of other people as they are unique and different from our own self and not trying to encroach our own preconceptions in order to change each other.
Living Life as an Intriguing Adventure. This involves giving ourselves permission to focus on our strengths and on the things that can contribute in a positive manner to our current well being, rather than giving in to our fears.
Stop Blaming Others For Your Problems. This involves accepting responsibility for your part in any relationship and freeing them from blame if there are problems.
The Wisdom of Expressing Both Your Love And Your Power. This involves learning and understanding the power of mutual admiration and caring in taking a relationship farther than one-sided power.
Taking Charge of Your Own Attitudes and Feelings. This involves "positive reframing" wherein we must learn to reinterpret situations or events that we initially see in a negative manner. Negative thinking can produce our own suffering. Through positive thinking, we can learn to create joy, happiness, and pleasure.
The wisdom of Forming Various Kinds of Relationships. This involves learning to develop relationships that are tailored to fit your needs may it be short term, long term, or permanent and then allowing them to evolve.
Drawing Nourishment from Both Your Senses and Your Depths. This involves living a full life which entails drawing on your sensory contact with the world - the sights, smells, the movements around us. Learn to accept these as all part of our world. Dreams and daydreams come in here too!
Encouraging Intimacy and Satisfying Lovemaking through Good Communications. This involves seeing, hearing, an intuiting what is going on with others and with ourselves.
Invoking the Magic of Love through Mutual Respect. This involves learning to honor the other person's uniqueness, fears, and inhibitions.
Bringing Closure to Old, Unfinished Conflicts or Complexes. This involves living fully in the present and leaving baggage from previous relationships behind.
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