The value of your life is the worth of your relationships.
Each friend represents a world in us, a world probably not born until they appear, and it is only by this gathering that a new world is born.
A tender relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself to giggle with me, but never at me; to shed tears with me, but never because of me; to care for life, to be keen on himself, to love being loved. Such a connection is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.
People are feeling alone because they build walls instead of bridges.
Collective joy is a double joy; collective sorrow is half a sorrow.
As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behaviour, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behaviour. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, and you can only process them in your mind.
Someone to tell it to is one of the primary needs of human beings.
Some of the biggest dares in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: theyre trying to find someone whos going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.
It is of realistic value to learn to like you. Since you must spend so much time with yourself you might as well get some happiness out of the relationship.
Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Dont over-analyse your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness.
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