What if learning how to detect a cheating wife didn't have to be difficult?
For instance, just imagine that catching your wife's affair was as easy as reading the rest of this article to learn about signs of infidelity in your sex life.
Oh wait, that's exactly what you're doing!
As you continue to read this article, you'll learn:
Listen, if your wife is having an affair, then it's impossible for your sex life to remain unchanged. There ARE signs of infidelity evident in you and your wife's sexual relationship, you just haven't identified them yet.
What I'd like to do in this article is analyze your marriage's sex life, and hopefully tell you more about your wife's affair.
Important! Before we continue, I want to make sure that you understand that for the remainder of this article we're going to be operating on the assumption that your wife IS in fact cheating on you.
Okay?
Let's get started:
First, What Are You Looking For?
Well, obviously in order for there to be an investigation of your sex life, you're going to need to know where you stand right now.
I find that it's most effective (especially in the beginning) to document EVERYTHING that you find. In fact, ideally I'd like you to begin taking note of every time you and your wife have sex. This way you can keep track of exactly how often you and your wife do the deed.
This is important, because it gives you a starting point for the rest of this investigation.
So, the first thing you should do is decide on how much you and your wife are currently sleeping together. Then we'll go from there.
You can go ahead and skip to the appropriate section, if you like.
"My Wife and I Still Do It' Just as Much as We Used To, Maybe Even More":
Do you and your wife seem to be having sex more often than normal? Has your wife only gotten friskier since you've suspected her of cheating?
Since we're assuming that your wife IS cheating on you, this means one of two things.
First and foremost, it probably means that your wife is cheating on you just for the sake of getting some action on the side. Chances are that she's not emotionally attached to whomever she's seeing, but the affair has woken up her sexual side and now she will sleep with whoever she has available.
That's option #1, here's option #2:
This is only slightly less likely to be the scenario: your wife could just be sleeping with you in an effort to hide the affair.
It's perfectly possible, maybe even down right LIKELY that your wife is only sleeping with you this increased amount in order to guarantee her safety from your prying investigation. She probably assumes that as long as you have sex, you don't care about the rest of the marriage.
She probably assumes that you're too dumb (or some other negative adjective) to figure out that you're being cheated on, as long as you still get your action.
Of course, just by reading this article you're proving her wrong!
"To Tell You the Truth, I Think I'm Forgetting What My Wife Feels Like":
The truth of the matter is that most women can NOT keep things going at home AND with a lover. Most of the time women simply aren't programmed like men are to be able to sleep with 2 men at once.
Most of the time your wife simply won't have energy or desire left over for you, and so your sex life will suffer.
Alternatively (and pray this isn't the case), your decreased sexual frequency with your wife could easily be a sign that she's becoming EMOTIONALLY involved with the affair.
Now, I'm only saying this to prepare you for the worst, but it's possible that your wife has fallen in love with her lover. It's possible that she can't bear the thought of 'cheating' on him, so you never get to see the sexual side of your wife.
It's absolutely disgusting, I know, but it happens. More often than you probably think.
How Can You Be Sure?
Yes, everything I've said in this article is true.
If your wife is having sex with you more, it's possible that she's cheating on you.
If your wife is having sex with you less, it's possible that she's falling in love with someone else.
However, it's also possible that you're going crazy. No offense.
So here's what I suggest you do:
Take some time to actually get PROOF of your wife's affair...It's probably a lot easier than you think.
Listen, there's no reason to continue wondering about whether or not your wife is being faithful when you're not looking. There's no reason that you should have to suspect an affair without actually knowing if it's true.
Even more so, there's NO reason that you should EVER have to question your sanity for the sake of your marriage. It's a sacrifice that you shouldn't have to make.
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